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Are You Afraid to Say No?

Updated on May 01, 2019

Yes. No. I mean – maybe? Well, okay. Have you ever wanted to be able to say "no" without feeling guilty? Without feeling you're letting someone down? Many of us struggle with disappointing anyone with a 'no.' At the same time, those two letters, n-o, can be freeing.

If you’re managing a chronic condition, the ability to say no is a powerful skill that can ultimately give you the gifts of time and energy to dedicate to your health. By trading off doing something you truly don’t have the time to do, you can give yourself more breathing room to stay on top of appointments, treatments, and general self-care. It becomes easier to say “no” with practice.

There are a variety of ways to say no and set boundaries with friends and family with no hard feelings. How do you say “no” to others? Are you direct? Do you provide rain checks?

Here are some conversations about this topic from the community:

“I was invited but the thought of a week in the same apartment as his family is my ultimate nightmare.”

“Sometimes people don't understand why I fear falling. My daughter insists I go bike riding but I don’t have very good balance on a bike.” 

“My husband is going to have to help more with the laundry lifting and grocery bag lifting.” 

When has saying no been a form of self-care for you?
Share in the comments below or post on MyOsteoTeam.

A MyOsteoTeam Member said:

Why would you have said NO? I have just had my third needle and don't know if its any good.

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